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Please advice her responsibly
Good morning mummy . I've been married 5years. I'm just not happy right now. And I don't know if there are other women in my shoes and how they cope.
We have two lovely kids. I work and earn more than hubby, I earn about 580k and hubby about 390k. I'm ok with this. But hubby has left all financial responsibilities to me. I told him that we should calculate what we spend a month and bring half of it each but he refused. Sometimes before the month end i will be owning so much. I try to save for the future but i can’t because the expenses is too much. Hubby lives above his means, he uses his money for his personal things.. I dare not complain or ask him for money cos he will say so with that my big salary I'm still looking at his.
The thing is, is this normal? I'm loosing it. I feel like a single mother just struggling a lot of times. He has never dropped 1 kobo for the children's clothes. Everything is on me. Most times I feel drained and this man will still complain with disgust that there is not enough Meat in the soup, I dare not put only 1 piece of meat on his plate.
Is this what marriage is about? I thot a man is supoosed to add value to me when i marry or is it a curse to earn more as a woman?.I haven't just come to complain I am seeking advise.
Good morning mummy . I've been married 5years. I'm just not happy right now. And I don't know if there are other women in my shoes and how they cope.
We have two lovely kids. I work and earn more than hubby, I earn about 580k and hubby about 390k. I'm ok with this. But hubby has left all financial responsibilities to me. I told him that we should calculate what we spend a month and bring half of it each but he refused. Sometimes before the month end i will be owning so much. I try to save for the future but i can’t because the expenses is too much. Hubby lives above his means, he uses his money for his personal things.. I dare not complain or ask him for money cos he will say so with that my big salary I'm still looking at his.
The thing is, is this normal? I'm loosing it. I feel like a single mother just struggling a lot of times. He has never dropped 1 kobo for the children's clothes. Everything is on me. Most times I feel drained and this man will still complain with disgust that there is not enough Meat in the soup, I dare not put only 1 piece of meat on his plate.
Is this what marriage is about? I thot a man is supoosed to add value to me when i marry or is it a curse to earn more as a woman?.I haven't just come to complain I am seeking advise.
Please advice her responsibly
Good morning mummy . I've been married 5years. I'm just not happy right now. And I don't know if there are other women in my shoes and how they cope.
We have two lovely kids. I work and earn more than hubby, I earn about 580k and hubby about 390k. I'm ok with this. But hubby has left all financial responsibilities to me. I told him that we should calculate what we spend a month and bring half of it each but he refused. Sometimes before the month end i will be owning so much. I try to save for the future but i can’t because the expenses is too much. Hubby lives above his means, he uses his money for his personal things.. I dare not complain or ask him for money cos he will say so with that my big salary I'm still looking at his.
The thing is, is this normal? I'm loosing it. I feel like a single mother just struggling a lot of times. He has never dropped 1 kobo for the children's clothes. Everything is on me. Most times I feel drained and this man will still complain with disgust that there is not enough Meat in the soup, I dare not put only 1 piece of meat on his plate.
Is this what marriage is about? I thot a man is supoosed to add value to me when i marry or is it a curse to earn more as a woman?.I haven't just come to complain I am seeking advise.
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