From my box

Happy new week, ma. Please help me post this anonymously.

I couldn’t sleep last night. I kept asking myself what I did wrong and where things went wrong.

My fiancee and I have our introduction coming up in April, and we’re supposed to get married in September. He has been under a lot of financial pressure because he’s building a duplex and now they are in interrior . He has complained severally about money, and I’ve always tried to be understanding because he says he wants us to move into our own house after marriage and not rent.

Yesterday, he called and said we should go out. Around that time, my childhood friend said she wanted to follow me, and I allowed her. When we got to the restaurant and he saw that I came with someone, his mood changed instantly. He didn’t even try to hide his angerrr, not even in front of my friend. It was obvious and embarrassingg.

After we ate, he paid and left. Later, he started sending me messages, saying that if we were already married and he told me he was having financial difficulties, I wouldn’t know how to make his life easy. He asked why I would bring someone along when I knew he didn’t have money. He said he didn’t ask for an extra person and that it wasn’t as if he had invited me out just to entertain others.
He then brought up an old issue that this same girl once lied that he toasted her. I already investigated that matter, found out it was a lie, and I made her apologize to him, which she did. I told him to let it go because she is my childhood friend and I can’t just throw away a long-term friendship over a misunderstanding that was already resolved.

To be honest, the girl herself arely even touched the food. We didn’t order anything extravagant he chose the restaurant, a Chinese place, and said he wanted me to try new dishes.
I spoke to him about bringing her along and explained my intentions, but he still said I don’t love or appreciate him. He said I value everyone more than my future husband and that this relationship might not work because anytime he complains, I “argue.” I wasn’t arguing I was explaining.

Now he’s talking about ending the relationship, all because of food and the presence of a friend.

Honestly, I’m confused. I don’t know if I truly did something wrong, or if this reaction is deeper than what happened yesterday.

Please, I want sincere advice.
Note: the girl herself is always afraid when she see him and she already apologized . But he wants me ro cut ties.