From my box.

My story go long if I decide to write am as e dey do me
But I no go write am like that. So that people go feet read am. My sisters and brothers am married with four kids in the space of five years in marriage my husband is not wealthy neither am I we just managing but my husband want sleep wake inside me that one no even pain me his mum and sisters came to the house telling me I am lucky the mum say if it’s like so her late husband come near her that she will be happy that I am the envy of all women envy of all women kwa ? How many of my mate will accept him? Me that drank garri last year to the point that I fell inside gutteer when crossing ? I did not even see it well they started calling me the lucky one both mother and daughter this is me even sometimes that I bring my own I do kunu,zobo and buns and sell very well I can not lie they buy it but every blessed day I sleep late and wake up early . Why am I the envy of all women ? No be say her pinkin dey stay one place and b$d mouth start and finish in his place
What made me envy of all women?

Years ago my husband abandoned me and our children, only to return now asking for forgiveness.

I married my husband as a very young, naive church girl. My husband didn’t have much but we managed . We welcomed our first child 10 months after our wedding .

Then came another child even when the first was just a year and three months old . I practically carried them as twins. I had no help , my husband was barely at home . He goes out everyday either job hunting or just doing menial jobs so we could survive.

The money was never enough, but still my husband kept pressuring me to get pregnant for Another baby . I sat him down and explained why we should pause giving birth and focus on the ones we already have .

My husband didn’t even try to understand with me , rather he went on and on telling me how the whole essence of marriage is for procreation . He even went further to report me to our pastor, the pastor didn’t help either. The pastor , instead of being logical, he went on schooling me about submission and how my husband is the head and his words are final, so I should submit to my husband and do whatever he pleases.

All this while, we lived in a two-bedroom apartment, owned by one elder in church, elder Emmanuel. Elder Emmanuel sometimes would not take rent from us as a way of supporting my family. But then life happened, he fell ill and died from that illness. The family came and started fighting for his properties and sold them one after the other . And the apartment we were staying was also among the properties they sold . The new owner increased the rent so high , so for that we had to evacuate the apartment.

We went and rented a single room and was managing. The day we packed in , my husband stepped out for something urgently, when he got back , the children were already asleep and I put them on the bed while I arranged the mat for my husband and I to sleep on the floor.

My husband came back and asked that I let the kids sleep on the mat . I thought he was joking, because the mat will be too strong for their little body but my husband insisted.

I tried to persuade him so he could maybe join the children to sleep on the bed but he said no , they must sleep on the floor and him and I on the bed .

I told him there was no way I could do that to my kids , I rather feel the pains that let my kids feel it , as it is they are already suffering.

We sold some of our belongings so we could fit into the one room apartment and also raise money for a little business. The mattress was among the things we sold .

That night my husband and I went back and forth arguing and i begging him to manage.

My husband left the house angrily and that was the last time my husband came home to me and our children.

Few weeks later I found out my husband has a new………..

To be continued…….

Please tell me did I do wrong to have laid our kids on the mattress or my husband overreacted?

#storytelling

From my box

Post and notify me. I have Been a gud wife, I open up to my husband about everything. I give money to him .my husband has betrayed me and I couldn’t sleep till morning. I saved 20m with hm . I was gathering it for me to start building this year . He took it and gave his side chick and the only money left is not upto 5m. Everyone is begging me. How can I be feeding a man, kids and doing everything for us to succeed and he will be doing his own. Please I am beyond sadd. I als don’t even know what to do.

From my box

Hi ma pls can you send this for me,for people to read and pls come to this lady's aid.
I have a friend that her husband's people have been fightingg her over her husband property, because her husband has been sick for sometime now and cannot not remember a thing,they came to take the man claiming to take him to where he will get proper medication but they are using the man to sell his own property without the knowledge of the wife,so the wife went to arrest them,to stay away from her husband property,and they HV sold two properties already without giving her anything,she has 4kids for the man,now they arrested her too yesterday and they don't want to grant her bail and they are taking her to Abuja as we am writing this now,
Pls house what can one do to help her,she doesn't HV anyone to fighttt for her, they are trying to intimidate her to collect the remaining documents from her.
Pls who knows who we can link up to,humann rights,or anyone that can help.
Pls ma post for me.

From my box.

My story go long if I decide to write am as e dey do me
But I no go write am like that. So that people go feet read am. My sisters and brothers am married with four kids in the space of five years in marriage my husband is not wealthy neither am I we just managing but my husband want sleep wake inside me that one no even pain me his mum and sisters came to the house telling me I am lucky the mum say if it’s like so her late husband come near her that she will be happy that I am the envy of all women envy of all women kwa ? How many of my mate will accept him? Me that drank garri last year to the point that I fell inside gutteer when crossing ? I did not even see it well they started calling me the lucky one both mother and daughter this is me even sometimes that I bring my own I do kunu,zobo and buns and sell very well I can not lie they buy it but every blessed day I sleep late and wake up early . Why am I the envy of all women ? No be say her pinkin dey stay one place and b$d mouth start and finish in his place
What made me envy of all women?

From my box.

Hide my identity let me remain anonymous. People I told my husband is this and that will insult me. My husband write anything he likes on fb……. He will be telling girls he loves their booob publicly and privately. He flirttt without recourse.
Sometimes he will be trollledd, he returns the favour . He works and earn well but spend one and half of his time on fb.
I have reported to everyone, they keep saying he is catching cruise . This morning they are tr0lling me and my kids because of him . He called a woman uggly and they carried our picture.
How else can I tell this man that what he is doing is bringing disrespect?

From my box

Good afternoon ma
Please post and conceal my id ma

I got married 4yrs ago,before marriage was a single mother with a daughter.my husband knew everything there is nothing about her I withheld from him,including my daughter’s health challengez .he showed her love and care still.we have 2boys together now with my daughter making 3kids.everything was going on well,until late last year he started having financiallll issues,contracts wasn’t coming in often,we were still managing ourselves and praying to God for a change.for sometime I noticed he changed towards my daughter.treating her harshlyyy knowing she is a special childsddd,can’t see.i had to call him for a talk.it was then he opened up and told me our pastor told him that my daughter is possess&d with wickedddd spirit that is hindering is progress that he should send my daughter away from his house before he can prosper.he said he confirmed from someone else his siblings took him to and they equally said same.there was a time when he equally accusedd me of such,he later apologized and I let go for peace sake.this time around I couldn’t watch him and his siblings give my daughter such a badddd stigmaaa.i went to my family also to report was going on.my elder brother called him and my husband was shouting at him.before I could even get home he went and took my son from school before closing time and lock me outside our house.I called him countlessly no response.it was later I realized he took my son to his sister and the sister never called me in all this before taking sides with his brother.it on my way to his sister’s house I saw him and took my son from him.then my sister came called my sister inlaw to talk to her then she started insultingg my elder sister.we walk down to her house.she insultedd i and my family and i retaliated for the first time i married her brother.note my husband had nothing when we met,he was even leaving with his sister then.his life now is far better than before.I really don’t know how my daughter is responsible for his problems.right now am at my brother’s house with my children and my dad already called him to come with his pastor and family for a meeting.am planning to tell my family to return his bride price so everyone can go their separate ways.please house am I the one at fault here and am not realizing it

Sorry for the long post.

From my box

Ma I want you to post this for me to know other people opinions, if am the one doing wrong in my marriage, please dont forget to his my .

Me and my husband have been married for 8 years with 2 kids, but since we married I dont know what love is, all my husband cares is his kids, he provides for them and make sure they never lack, going to food, there is always food at home. But to me am nothing, am a graduate, I once work as a teacher in a private school but it was not working, so I had to quit, so I beg my husband to open a business for me to start something, but he refuses I even asked my mom to beg him still the same thing, say as I refuse to stay in his mom shop, when he asked me to, the reason why I refuse was that the mom is very troublesomee and she talks and insult all the time, that's why I refuse, me I dont want wahala.

When I saw it was not working, I started doing a online business and I was seeing little money to do things for myself, because he never gives me, if I beg him, he will want me to cry or get angry before he will give me, not that his stingyy
o, is not, is known for giving people outside, even someone told me someone was asking for his number to beg him for assistant for her business, while am here doing nothing

Since January, he has been telling me to take in again for the third child, I refuse, because my other two pregnancy was maltreatmenttt and starvationnnn, I say if I have good money or reasonable thing am doing I will take in. Even my story is long, he even open his mouth one time and say he will use hungerr as punishmentt to me, hmmmm. The one that painedd me was that he went and be gossiping about me with my co-wife for what that didn't concern her, then she told me everything he said, is not today he started this gossiping about me, he always find a way to spoilk my name.

Of recent I started falling sick unlike me since last year, when I ask him to give me money for treatment, he bluntly refuse, it was my brother that gave me money, so am sick again, I then told him to give me money to go to the hospital for check up, what he said is that why won't I be sick when am always sitting at home doing nothing and eating and getting ffat, that he won't give me anything.

He always say am ungrateful because he provides everything for the house. Please I want to know am I truly ungrateful or is there something am missing here, because I feel confused everytime.
Please ma notify me when you post it. Will be waiting

From my box.

You see puur m*n ? None of my kids will marry them I am taking it serious
This is black soup person gimme 10k to cook soup dey expect antilope inside am
Unnecessary talking
This food be said it do not look apitizing
I add my own money in the soup so it can even get taste how much is meet his mate I know how much they give their wife
Today he give me 20k for stew and request chicken inside I am not ready for another talk how will this money make stew in this regime ?
If na tire I done tire

From my box.

You see puur m*n ? None of my kids will marry them I am taking it serious
This is black soup person gimme 10k to cook soup dey expect antilope inside am
Unnecessary talking
This food be said it do not look apitizing
I add my own money in the soup so it can even get taste how much is meet his mate I know how much they give their wife
Today he give me 20k for stew and request chicken inside I am not ready for another talk how will this money make stew in this regime ?
If na tire I done tire

From my box. Some stories sha .

I said let me update the house, i am the one that posted in December last year about d0mestic vawulence and everyone insulttted me. They said i should leave . Why i did not leave earlier is because my family said is going to dent their image so i should stay there. But i have left and today I feel like if I don’t write and give update i will be hurtt too much . I got married in 2021 with hope and prayers, after dating for two years without a single sign of what was coming, and it was only after marriage that I realized I married someone completely different from the person I knew. The first time he be*t me, I kept asking myself what I did wrong, because all I did was cook food he didn’t like, and from that day the vawulence became normal even while I was pregnant. I cried, I called my parents, and I was told to endure and stay, so I stayed because I didn’t know what else to do. When I went into labor with my first child, I called my husband and he didn’t answer because he was with another woman, and I gave birth alone until a friend helped me pay my hospital bills. I endured again, came back to the house because my mum Is cwo president and her child can not fail in marriage .
When i returned back he started making luv to me again because if i say no no food for me and i was breafeeding. I got pregnant again and he was beattting me with his younger brother.

I was shouting andbegging them. I said if you can not show me mercy show your child i am carrying mercy.
Why were they doing that ? I got to his store and met his side chick and confronted her. That was all, and one day I ran out of the house with my children because I knew I would not survive if I stayed. I returned to my family house believing it would be safe, but it was not, and I learned that sometimes the place you run to for refuge is also full of painn. I have known hunger, sickness without money, and fear that never sleeps, I have watched my children suffer while I stay quiet and strong, I have been told my suffering is my luck and that I should go back to painn so others can look respectable. Today I am tired, tired of asking what I did to deserve this life, tired of being gentle and still punished, tired of being strong when I am empty. There are days I don’t eat, days my children don’t eat, days I choose between food and medicine, days I apply for jobs with shaking hands and faith that feels very small. I am writing because silence is keeling me.
I am doubting myself so much today, who created me? Why is my story like this ?
Ok why can’t God just exempt mothers from suffering even for the sake of their children?
Husband house I faced issues, here issues too
My younger brother even raised his handz at me. My mum said i deserve it .
Since on Thursday now, my kids have not eaten anything tangible, I haven’t even eaten anything at all, ulcer is disturbing me, back pain and all
Please I am in uyo if anyone have a job for me please help me. My baby is 8 months now, a job that can allow me go with baby. Also beg God for me, I am tired and thinking to do somethings I pray he forgives me if I do it because he doesn’t want to help . I am very tired already .

Breaking News 🥹

Davido went for a show in KANO . Got done and was VERY TIRED as he has had no proper rest in a month . After the show people were coming for pictures and he said NO , he is very tired . But when he saw these kids , he had to force it and make even videos with them .

These kids have no idea who they are with , when they grow they’ll understand they linked up with 001 and even made videos with him . Davido has a heart of Gold especially towards children too .

Moral lesson : Always love and protect kids . They are blessings