From my box My son came back from school with his hair barbed this way. For this three days he has been admitted in hospital. He is acting strange and can not talk . I do not know who to speak too about this because he has not said a word since that day . He is 8 years old . I need prayers and advice . 🥲

From my box. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Madam Mel good morning o, how are you and the children? How is Oga at the top ? Please I send my full salute. I just want to report myself because I have entered a season that no man warned me about. I am a married man to a pregnantt woman, and let me tell you the truth, nothing prepares you for this spiritual journey. Before now, when I used to see men online saying their wives sent them to go and buy one particular meat from one particular market because “that’s the only one she can eat,” I would laugh and say these men are just forming. I didn’t know pregnancy itself is the cruise. My own started small small. This woman that is normally strong like soldier suddenly started crying for things that don’t even have business with tears. And unfortunately for me, women’s tears can shake my soul because once I hear a woman crying, my body will just enter emergency mode. One morning I bathed and forgot my towel in the bathroom, not even on the floor o, I dropped it on top the bathtub because I was rushing to work. Madam tell me why my wife called me on the phone… crying… as if I left a tiger inside the bathroom. “So you left that thing there?” I started begging immediately, “I’m sorry baby please forgive me,” meanwhile house help will come and carry it, nobody is dyingg, but in pregnancy constitution, towel on bathtub is a personal attackkk. Now the real issue. My office sent me for a business trip and I came back, madam my wife looked at me like I went to enjoy myself while she was on punishmentt. She said “So you just entered plane and travelled, while I’m here incapacitatedd with this big bellyy, I cannot even sleep well.” In my mind I was like, my office did not book this flight as family package, it is business meeting not honeymoon, but I nodded because at this stage, a wise man knows peace is better than explanation. To calm everything down, I carried her, took her to spa, did pedicure, fixed nails, washed hair, complete queen treatment. Madam this woman slept in the car on the way back like small baby, slept so deeply I was almost calling security to help me carry her inside because I didn’t even want her to wake up and remember I travelled. I gently carried her inside like fragile egg. She slept for four solid hours. Guess what? After sleeping she said I should come and lie down too. Madam she held me down like teddy bear while she slept peacefully, and me I was there awake, hungry, trapped, fightingg for my life quietly. This is what married men are going through. Thank God we are 37 weeks now, we are almost at the finish line, because if I survive this pregnancy season, before I even think of getting her pregnant again, I will rest first, I will recover, I will regain freedom to drop towel without national drama. But truly, I thank God, after all the years it took us to get this blessing, I will take every mood swing with love, even if it comes with spa bills and hostage cuddling. Pregnancy is not for the weak, but love is sweet . Pray for us to scale through this season.

From my box I had two major surgery that left me in a wheelchair all through 2024. I was bedridden and helpless. My husband was not around because he was abroad trying to make a better life for us. Then I had an accidenttt, a car hitt me and the driver ran away. That accident made everything worse. My legs refused to heal, the pain was too much, and every day I was just crying. When I was discharged from the hospital, they brought me back home thinking I would be safe, but honestly that was when I started seeing the real suffering. My own mother and my brother treated me like I was nothingg. The money my husband was sending for my drugs, my hospital checkups, and my feeding, they were using it for themselves. I was at home with injuriesss, without medicine, sometimes without food, and I would be cryingg and begging just to be taken care of. For three months, I was in that house in serious painn, and they watched me like it did not concern them. My husband believed I was being treated because he was sending money, but the money was not reaching me. My legs were not healing because I was not getting proper care. There were days I would just lie down and cry quietly because I could not understand how my own family could look at me and still ignore me. Even when I was on the wheelchair, I was still seeing my monthly periodd and it was so messyy and painfulll, I felt like I had lost all dignity. Nobody helped me. It was my husband that finally begged his mother and said if you have ever loved me , please go to that village and bring her out. That was when my mother-in-law came with my husband’s older brother and they carried me away. They were the ones that started taking me back to hospital again. They were the ones that made sure I was getting drugz, food, and treatment. My husband’s brother even got angryy one day and told my husband to stop sending money, that they would handle it because he was tired of seeing me sufferrr. Him and his wife only God can pay them because they treated me like I was their own. His wife helped me when I was weak, helped me clean up, helped me in ways my own people refused. My mother-in-law showed me love and care that I will never forget. When my husband returned in December, he was so happy because he saw that I was improving. Today, I can walk gradually again and I am much better. This is my leg now and I thank God I survived. But what is breaking me now is that my mother has been sick since September and they keep posting her for donations, and I feel confused because these are the same people that never cared about me when I was in painn. They tried to reach out to me only to talk about her sicknesss, but not once did they ever ask me how I was healing or how I survived those months. So I don’t know what to do, if I should go there myself or just send money, because my heart is still hurtingg from how I was treated when I needed them the most.

From my box Hi ma’m I am into a very serious relationship. This relationship came with so much. Guy has played rules of a father and what he has done my mouth can not say it all. Is it from letting me know what I can do and I am doing wel to proving money for me to start it. Putting me on monthly allowance, caring for my widowed mother. Caring for my sisters. To buying clothes, changing my hair. To making me draw closer to Christ . To defining the relationship and also getting my family and his close even from a distance . His mum is not here in Nigeria but she is so close to me that no month she will not reach out. Imagine your boyfriend’s mother sending things down. Yesterday I was so shocked at something we discussed . He spoke on sezual fantasies and he told me that he likes licking plate. I asked to be sure and he said yes. I couldn’t even sleep. It means he is deeper into the world. How can i marry someone like that could he be joking ?

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From my box. Nawa Ma’m this ring I just found out is not meant for me, he gave another girl that rejected it then he brought to me. Can you imagine ??? Someone rejected it and you give me as I am walking is coming out of my hands , my office self they will say your ring want fall. They will say catch your ring and hold it well . I want to pack my things from his place , I have full load there. Down to bed, chair, curtain all my pot and spoons etc. please will this be harshh? Indeed I have confirmed is truely for another lady. Edit: I did not pack to live there I bought this things because I thought we will settle down . Is his best friend my tribal guy that recorded my fiancée saying Ruth rejected it so he had to engage me. He even said if he see another woman he fit still leave me that I am not his type.

From a member 🤣🤣🤣 Mummy help me post and hide my identity. My husband is that type of man that spend outside but forget he has family inside. He doesn’t give me money, Everything my children need, I handle it from my small business. School things, food, little expenses all by myself. Before he will give me 20k i will have to talk and talk, he only pay their school fees and that is all. On Saturday night he came home drunk, talking to himself and staggering everywhere. As he was trying to remove his trousers, a bundle of money fell from his pocket. I quietly picked it up, 155,000. I looked at him, he was already half-asleep on the chair 😆😆 The next morning, you need to see him searching the whole house like a criminal. He opened drawers, checked under the bed, even looked inside the washing machine 😂 Then he asked me, Did you see any money around? Me, No, I didn’t see anything.😊 Meanwhile, the money is safely hidden with me. And guess what? Today I used part of it to buy chicken. I fried it, sat down with my children, and we ate happily. The children were even smiling like it’s Christmas day already 😂 Till today he is still asking himself where the money went. Meanwhile, the remaining one is relaxing peacefully inside my wardrobe 😂😂tomorrow i am going to buy my kids Christmas clothes from it. 😂😂 He think he is wise, happy Christmas to me and every member here😂😂

From a member 🤣🤣🤣 Mummy help me post and hide my identity. My husband is that type of man that spend outside but forget he has family inside. He doesn’t give me money, Everything my children need, I handle it from my small business. School things, food, little expenses all by myself. Before he will give me 20k i will have to talk and talk, he only pay their school fees and that is all. On Saturday night he came home drunk, talking to himself and staggering everywhere. As he was trying to remove his trousers, a bundle of money fell from his pocket. I quietly picked it up, 155,000. I looked at him, he was already half-asleep on the chair 😆😆 The next morning, you need to see him searching the whole house like a criminal. He opened drawers, checked under the bed, even looked inside the washing machine 😂 Then he asked me, Did you see any money around? Me, No, I didn’t see anything.😊 Meanwhile, the money is safely hidden with me. And guess what? Today I used part of it to buy chicken. I fried it, sat down with my children, and we ate happily. The children were even smiling like it’s Christmas day already 😂 Till today he is still asking himself where the money went. Meanwhile, the remaining one is relaxing peacefully inside my wardrobe 😂😂tomorrow i am going to buy my kids Christmas clothes from it. 😂😂 He think he is wise, happy Christmas to me and every member here😂😂

Please advice her responsibly Good afternoon ma Thank you for this privilege ma. I based here in South Africa and I'm happily married with 2 kids. I got a salon here so when I was in needs of hairstylist I remember my long time colleagues we once worked as a stylist in Abuja so I contacted her even though she's married with 3kids too but with the way things are going in Nigeria I thought she will be ready to hustle for the kids. So I talked to her and asked her if she will be able to come down here that I just needed her to do her passport I'll sponsor the visa and ticket she will only be paying back every month. I didn't PRAY to much about her. I told my mom about it and the following day she told me not to take her that she had a dream seeing her sitting closed to my husband.i laugh it out that my mom is being too much. To cut the long story short she came over and we continue our business. I started having some dreams too but I didn't take it serious. The one that scares me was the one that she was besides me in the dream trying to make me sleep so that she can go to my husband and the other one she got pregnant for my husband. We are staying together for now because I want her to be able to pay me my money before she can stay alone plus here we pay rent every month. And I noticed my husband anytime he's together with her his thing always rise. And I noticed she also came with some sweetener like the once you sell too. What should I do about this and how do I handle this?

Please advice her responsibly Compliment of the season mommy and everyone here. Plz it will be a lengthy post,kindly bear with me. I am married with 3kids,the last is 13months old. I was given 1m to start a business by my husband which I was dubbed off this year through my house help,she bought stuff with my card,came back by morning myaccount was cleared with series of debit. I told him he never believed even with bank evidence. He said I should look for the money or else I will stay at home and get tired. So the reason for this post is this I did a yearly contribution which I was giving 365k And I have been thinking to start something with it by January,to be sincere I don’t want to seat at home again doing anything,Expecially now he has made it clear that he won’t give me anything again. So I wish to start foodstuff or a saloon,I braid very well. So in my estate their is no saloon ,they use to be one but she is not doing well in braiding she employ workers which are not always stable so people goes out to make their hair. So even now I noticed she don’t open again so I took her number and called her to know why,and she told me she is parking out that she has problem with her neighbor and she reported her to the landlady and they ask her to leave. She said her neighbor is a problem person. Note this her neighbor sales foodstuffs,drinks and snacks and this lady started selling thoes things since her hair business is not moving. So now am thinking of taking that shop as saloon. Note when I called her I told her am looking for a shop around she said I shouldn’t think of that her formal shop because of that her neighbor that she is troublesome. So am here for advice should I go ahead or look for somewhere else. Please ma approve

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From my box Please help me out, this thing has been bordering me since last night I couldn't sleep well,there is this man we have been together for 2yrs and 7months now he is 43 while I'm 30,what happened was that, since this season and many other passed months he doesn't provide nor give me anything, I do understand because he has nothing on him now,me I use to run pos before now but my I no longer have money to continue,this aside it happened that he has a function to attend In their village and I was invited,so I begin to prepare for his big day,I just made my hair with the help of my younger brother, don't even have what to put on and he knows about it,then I call him to ask him how's the preparation going he was sound okay from his tune,then I told him that if he can assist me with transport fare and he hanged up,I still called again he said I was asking him a wrong question,that if I can't come that I should forget about it,he couldn't allow me to finish what am saying and he hanged up again🤦 I called again started explaining how things is going and how I'm managing it, still yet he doesn't wants to understand my perspective,he said my fellow women are doing it ,that they can board plane to visit and do anything for the man they love,after all that's been said he told me later agrees somehow,he ended up saying that if I know I won't be in happy mode that I shouldn't come,he doesn't want what will make him angryy that's he needs peace as it I don't deserve same peace 😩🥹 Honestly I'm pissed off and brokennn 💔 I don't know what I did to deserve all this,I'm still thinking 🤔 if I should go or forget about it. Please advise me