From my box

Good evening ma.
Please, I need your advice. There is a man who did my introduction and through him I got a job. My workplace is closer to where he stays, though not extremely close. Because we are planning to get married soon, I told him I would like to stay at his place for some time so I could easily go to work and so we could both save money and prepare for the marriage.
I stayed at his place for about two months. One day he suddenly told me that he needed space and wanted time to think, and that I should go back to my parents' house for now.
I called his mother and explained everything to her, and she tried to settle the issue between us which she did and he later asked for my forgiveness that night. The next day when he stepped outside to answer a phone call, I started packing my things because I wanted to leave, in my mind, I was like, why will he go outside to answer the call. My intention was that he would beg me.
but he asked why I wanted to leave when his mum had already settled the issue. He also asked if I really loved him, saying that if he didn’t love me, he wouldn’t have allowed me to stay with him.
The following day he again told me that he needed space and that he was serious about it. So I left and went back to my parents’ house. Since then he has been calling me, but I am confused and I don’t know if he truly loves me or not.
Please ma, I would really appreciate your advice.

From my box.

My story go long if I decide to write am as e dey do me
But I no go write am like that. So that people go feet read am. My sisters and brothers am married with four kids in the space of five years in marriage my husband is not wealthy neither am I we just managing but my husband want sleep wake inside me that one no even pain me his mum and sisters came to the house telling me I am lucky the mum say if it’s like so her late husband come near her that she will be happy that I am the envy of all women envy of all women kwa ? How many of my mate will accept him? Me that drank garri last year to the point that I fell inside gutteer when crossing ? I did not even see it well they started calling me the lucky one both mother and daughter this is me even sometimes that I bring my own I do kunu,zobo and buns and sell very well I can not lie they buy it but every blessed day I sleep late and wake up early . Why am I the envy of all women ? No be say her pinkin dey stay one place and b$d mouth start and finish in his place
What made me envy of all women?

From my box.

My story go long if I decide to write am as e dey do me
But I no go write am like that. So that people go feet read am. My sisters and brothers am married with four kids in the space of five years in marriage my husband is not wealthy neither am I we just managing but my husband want sleep wake inside me that one no even pain me his mum and sisters came to the house telling me I am lucky the mum say if it’s like so her late husband come near her that she will be happy that I am the envy of all women envy of all women kwa ? How many of my mate will accept him? Me that drank garri last year to the point that I fell inside gutteer when crossing ? I did not even see it well they started calling me the lucky one both mother and daughter this is me even sometimes that I bring my own I do kunu,zobo and buns and sell very well I can not lie they buy it but every blessed day I sleep late and wake up early . Why am I the envy of all women ? No be say her pinkin dey stay one place and b$d mouth start and finish in his place
What made me envy of all women?

From my box

I rented a space last year November, I don't know anyone in the area I was new here in Abuja and I had limited time to pack from my uncles house because it's far from my ppa. January this year I started seeing bedbug from there they brought a dog to the compound that has tick. I heard an I am also seeing people bring women there that she is turning the place to an hotel. The men that come to that compound sometimes view my toilet when am in the toilet some even try to open my door when am in the room I complain to the woman about it and she told me that evening that she will return my money. 3days later we calculate the money for the 2months I spent there and my balance is 316,500 she told me she will give me on Friday but told someone that's working for her that she won't give me the money. So I called the husband and told him what was happening, the man said she and the woman have problem that she don't want to talk about her. The man sent his friend to talk to her . The man talked with her and she told the man if not February he won't give me my money. I came back from CDS and I washed my clothes on the rope this woman cut the rope an my clothes where on the floor. In the evening she brought one lady to the compound and the lady with her told me that money she won't return it because I report to her husband. Am tired I need help to get my money back am no longer safe here. She told me she has the money but she won't give me

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From my box. Nawa

If I want to write it all I will flood this space. But I can not just let this year go by without talking about it.
Last year April my husband told me his younger sister will be coming to stay with us. She has always warmed up to me. So i didn’t reject it. And yes they are from same parents. She came and started helping me with so much.
September my younger sister also came to join us. Our house is big and both me and oga are doing so well . We are not the type that likes maid or Nannie’s .we employ but they don’t live in.

As times went on I will touch my hubby he will not agree, it has never happened before.
I spent this particular year begging for xxx, I did all but he declined.
I discussed this with my mentor and she said maybe he is cheating I should put an eye.
I sincerely didn’t see signs.
In September this year my sister started disrespecting me, she no more speak calmly to me and talks to me anyhow . I slappeddd her that faithful day and my husband was not ok with it . She packed her things and left. My mum didn’t see her at home, she didn’t go to the east and she blocked me everywhere. Both my number .
Story cut short, my husband is her boyfriend. (Tears) he went ahead to rent for my sister .
I found out through his very good friend that was tired of my complaint because at some point he got tired of my complaint.,
Shocking one is ahead, he also sleeeps with his own biological sister, . I had this shocks back to back this year . I also didn’t check again why maids don’t last in my house until I completely said no live in again only come and go
If you see me now ma,m you will never believe I am same person on my dp
I got into deprezzion that I can go days without battinggg.
Marriage is over now, I sm now living in one of the houses I built. I was encouraged just this last year by my mentor to build a house .
Hmmmmn

Unwanted Child

They never said it out loud, but the house knew.

It knew in the way silence settled heavier around one small bedroom. In the way birthdays passed like ordinary days, and report cards were left face-down on the table. The child learned early how to fold themself smaller, how to move quietly, how not to need too much.

At school, teachers praised neat handwriting and polite manners. “Such an easy child,” they said, smiling. The child smiled back, because being easy felt safer than being honest.

At home, the mirrors were kinder than people. In them, the child practiced expressions—brave, calm, unbothered—trying to choose one that might finally fit. But when the lights were off, questions crept in. If I disappeared, would the house notice? Would the silence change at all?

One afternoon, the child stayed late at the library. Not to study, but to exist somewhere warm. A librarian noticed them day after day, always alone, always reading stories about faraway places.

“You like books,” she said gently.

The child nodded.

“They’re good for finding words when we don’t have any,” the librarian said, sliding over a new one. Inside the cover, someone had written: You matter.

The child didn’t believe it at first. Words were easy to write. Harder to live. But they carried the book anyway, like a small, secret light.

Years passed. The house stayed the same, but the child did not. They learned that being unwanted by someone does not mean being unworthy. They found friends who listened, teachers who stayed late, strangers who became anchors without even trying.

One day, standing in a different mirror, the child—older now—met their own eyes and felt something unfamiliar.

Not love. Not yet.

But permission.

Permission to take up space. To speak loudly. To want things. To stay.

The house never learned how to say it.

But the child did.

And that was enough to begin.


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From my box

Good morning ma. Merry Christmas to you and your family in advance.

I normally don’t write on social media like this, but I feel compelled to say one or two things because of the atmosphere we are all soaking in lately.

It’s obvious that the constant flow of negative marriage-related content is beginning to irritateee many people and sadly, it’s affecting minds. Single ladies are beginning to feel marriage is a trap. Single men are becoming afraid of commitment. And some men, who already lack direction, are finding a voice to mock, insultttt, and degradeeee women forgetting that they have daughters, sisters, and mothers too.
This negativity has become so overwhelming that my husband told me yesterday he was logging out of Facebook and he did. I will be doing the same shortly. This platform was never my business space; it was meant for light interaction, connection, and moments of joy. But when something begins to pois0n the mind, wisdom demands distance.
What touched me deeply was seeing how saddd you are , saddd because you seehow disturbed you were by men publicly celebrating dysfuncti0n , hatred, and disrespectttt, without realizing that the seeds they applaud today may destroyyy their own homes tomorrow. If boys are raised with this mindset, many will ruin livessss including their own. Some will end up behind bars, not because women are evul, but because values were lost.

Before I step back, let me say this clearly There are good men. There are good women. And marriage is beautiful.

What my husband and I have achieved together in 12 years, neither of us could have achieved alone in 20. Our progress is not magic it is teamwork, mutual respect, sacrifice, and shared vision. Marriage thrives when two people choose to build, not battle.

Please, I beg you filter what you consume.
Do not let loud, bitter voices convince you that marriage is evul or that all men are the same. The men who constantly berateeee women online are already telling you who they are. Wisdom simply says avoid them.

Many good mennn are not online shouting. They are busy building, loving, and protecting their homes.

This is just my little contribution before I take a step back to focus on my family and my real work offline.

Thank you for reading.
God bless you all.
And Merry Christmas.

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